Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Picture Tells So Much

Last week we were so excited to get an updated well baby check on Andrew along with updated photos and video. We had not received anything since July so it was awesome. I had so many emotions as I was about to open the package delivered not to mention I was seriously stalking the mail lady because I knew it was arriving on Monday. I called Steve before I opened it and texted some close friends because I can't even put to words all the feelings that were brewing inside me. Once I opened it and looked at the photos on the computer I just cried.....
our baby boy still so far from us.
Who would have thought we would still be waiting??

However, I also know it is all in God's perfect timing but wow, it is hard.
We truly have decided the song by John Waller
While I'm Waiting
is our adoption journey story.

So, sorry for getting so far off from what I started about a picture telling so much!!
I posted Andrew's new picture on the adoption forum I belong to along with new information the foster mom gave about Andrew. Here is what we know about him from her:

-He sleeps through the night from 11pm to 7am, sleeping in a bed with another baby in the room.

- He sleeps better in a quiet room.

-He is sensitive to noise.

-His foster mom describes him as sensitive.

-He would rather play with others and doesn’t like to be alone.

-He is very active.

-He doesn’t follow directions, yet, but understands “please give me this…”

-He is curious and cautious of his surroundings.

-He can use a spoon and tries to feed himself.

-He likes to mimic.

-He is walking with good balance and beginning to talk.

-He can say dad, mom and why.


Something SO amazing happened I never dreamed about.....

I received a private message from another adoptive mom.


Her message said something like this....I think our babies share the same foster family!

WHAT???

So I instantly sent her my cell number and within 30 minutes she called me!


I asked her if she could email a photo of her little girl and foster mom.

I stood at the computer anxiously waiting for it to come through.


YES! YES! YES!

Our sweet babies have the same foster family!


I was in tears.


So, how did she make that connection?

Remember my title that a picture tells so much?



Well, she saw that Andrew is wearing the same sweater...did you get that?

The same sweater as what her little girl was wearing in her last photo with foster mom.


Also, our foster mom wears the same jacket usually and she could see just a small piece of the jacket and little bit of foster mom's face...

BUT

with just that we have made a connection that we can continue for life!


This other family doesn't live across the country from us but only a few hours.

We will forever be able to keep Andrew in contact with his sweet sister

that he has shared so much with for the last 2 years.

If you would like to follow her blog too it is..

http://ourpromisedson.blogspot.com/



So incredible.


I have chatted with the other family

and whoever travels first will take a care package for the other child.


This was just a great gift to begin the Christmas season.




5 comments:

  1. I AM SO GLAD TO HAVE FOUND YOU!!!!

    I love that our families will be forever combined through our children. I know that we all will be blessed to have each other. I think it is so cool that our children probably sleep in the same room together! I know they wear some of the same clothes. Can't wait to finally meet both of our kids and have us holding them in our arms beside each other!! We are blessed.

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  2. That is an awesome story! Love the way God's hand is in all things! Congrats on the new info! :)

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  3. I just read "Journey" and had to come over and say that it is awesome!!

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  4. Such an amazing story! I just stopped by from Tracy's blog and your son looks familiar from the adoption forum. My name is Rachel and we are waiting for a little boy (Nathan) who is with Eastern and won't be home until late next year. I just wanted to say hi :)

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  5. That's so cool! I just popped over from Tracy's blog to say hi! Congrats!

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